TCR Volunteer Appreciation Night

READY.... SET .... BOWL!!!

In appreciation for TCR's wonderful volunteers, we rented out the whole BOWLING ALLEY!!!

Grab your bowling balls & shoes and ROLL on over!

Let's STRIKE up some fun!

Don't SPLIT until after a complementary dinner from the famous NOOK restaurant, known for their world-famous "Best of the Best Burgers and Fries".

We hope you can SPARE some time to join us!

Don't be a GUTTER BALL and RSVP by March 21, 2023

When?
Thursday, March 30, 2023
6:00 PM CT - 9:00 PM CT

WHERE?
Ranham Bowling & Nook
490 Hamline Avenue
St. Paul, MN 55116
Click Here for More Information and to RSVP
Feed My Starving Children

We had a great time at Feed My Starving Children where our group packed 15 boxes of food that were sent to Honduras. 
 

Volunteers Needed

Please prayerfully consider helping.

Thank you!
Weekend Set-Up  and Clean-Up
We need volunteers to help set-up/clean-up for the Retrouvaille Couple's weekend of March 31, 2023 & June 2, 2023.  You can volunteer just for set-up or just clean-up or both!  If interested, clink the link for more information and to sign-up. The time commitment ~2 -3 hours each day.
Click Here for More Information and to Sign-Up
Friday Night Greeters
"Greeter Couples" are requested to help on weekends with the Friday Night Couples (FNC's). 
Enjoy complementary dinner with Retrouvaille friends, then help escort FNC's to their hotel rooms.
Goal:  Talk to FNC couples and help them relax.  Check to make sure that both of their key cards are working.  Provide encouragement for the weekend.  Confirm that they have made a good decision to attend.  Tell them when you made your weekend and maybe share how Retrouvaille helped heal your marriage.
Click Here for More Information and to Sign-Up
POST Session Helpers
Interested in POST sessions but would like to do more?  We need helpers at the POST sessions to help prepare the room, set-up tables & chairs, and work with the coordinators to help the session run smoothly.  Help for just one session or several.  Please use the link below to email the coordinators for more information.        
Click Here to Email for More Information or to Sign-Up
"FUN" Event Coordinators
We are looking for a couple to set-up a "FUN" event for more community involvement.  It could be anything from bowling to golf simulator to group pickleball. If you have an idea, we would love to hear it! 
Click Here to Email Ideas or to Sign-Up

God and Grit Kept Our Marriage Alive: Tonia's Story

Tonia Clark is a wife to Brandon and a stay-at-home mom to their daughter. She and Brandon have fought hard to save their marriage after Brandon's pornography addiction, and they use their story to encourage others to find hope and healing. Tonia and her family live in Minnesota.

Tonia's Story
How much of our lives do we spend looking at others and thinking about how perfect they look⁠—almost like a Hallmark film? We learn it as little girls. The stories we hear end with “and they lived happily ever after.” We hear it as young women when they speak of finding your “knight in shining armor” or your “soulmate.” 
Click Here and Continue Reading Tonia's Story
Brandon's Story
John Eldredge in his book Wild at Heart writes: “In the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.” I first read these words as a college student, exclaiming, “Yes! Exactly!” Continuing deeper into the initial pages, energy welled up inside me as Eldredge talked about how men are made to go into the unknown and conquer it.
Click Here and Continue Reading Brandon's Story
REBUILD YOUR MARRIAGE
10 Ways to Build Intimacy Apart From Sex
by Beth Denison, There's Still Hope & Covenant Eyes

For many of us, the idea that there can be intimacy without sex sounds as unbelievable as the story of a man’s encounter with aliens, headlined on the magazine at the check-out counter. This can be especially true for the person struggling with porn or sex addiction.  For those in recovery or anyone else who would like to know how to build intimacy apart from sex, here are ten suggestions:
  1. Focus on Spiritual Connection
  2. Express Appreciation
  3. Reminisce Together
  4. Laugh Together
  5. Foster Connection with Conversation
  6. Do New Things Together
  7. Engage in Non-Sexual Physical Touch
  8. Look into Each Other's Eyes
  9. Do Something to Make Your Spouse Feel Special
  10. Listen Intently
Click Here to Read the Full Article
Married Couples Retreats
April 14-16, 2023
Franciscan Retreats and Spirituality Center
16385 St Francis Ln, Prior Lake, MN 55372

 
Our Married Couples Retreats provide you and your spouse with an opportunity to spend time together enhancing your relationship as well as your
spiritual journey.
A non-refundable registration fee of $70.00 per couple is required and must be received in order to reserve a room. Suggested offering for the couples retreat is $380 per couple (includes programs, meals and private room with private shower/toilet.)
Click Here to Learn More and to Register

North Central Regional Gathering
April 28-30, 2023

WHAT?

The communities in Region 8 come together each spring for faith, fellowship, and fun.
Join us this year.

Friday evening - Fun and games
Saturday - Regional Business and enrichment
Sunday - Business wrap up and Mass


WHERE?
Green Lake Conference Center
W2511 Stat Rd 23
Green Lake, Wisconsin

WHEN?
Friday evening, April 28, 2023 to
Sunday morning, April 30, 2023

RSVP 

After February 28, 2023, space permitting:
Individual $275
Couple $375

HOW?
Payment options:

- Paypal - tcrminn@gmail.com please use pay friends & family

- Venmo @TCR-mn 651-440-1426

- Checks: Payable to Twin Cities Retrouvaille
                with NCRG on the memo line
Send to Andy and Deirdre Jameson
14403 57th St N
Oak Park Heights, MN  55082

 

Region 8 Support
612-212-1063 / 651-428-9439
region8support@helpourmarriage.org


 
Click Here to Register
Saving Your Relationship When Your Marriage Hurts
from Verywellmind.com

A marriage that is hurtful may be headed for divorce.  Learn the causes and impact of these hurts, along with ways to save a hurtful marriage and when to seek help.
Click Here to Read the Full Article
More Dialogue Questions

No need to look all over for Dialogue Questions. 

Click the link below for dialogue questions that can be sorted by subject.
 
Click Here for Dialogue Questions

Angel Helpers Needed

How would you like to repeat the Retrouvaille weekend with your spouse?

Tasks include helping serve meals, clean-up after meals, running errands if needed.  Your cost is $0 to attend the weekend.  TCR will cover your hotel cost + meals.  
Your main duty - work on your marriage.

We are looking for 1-2 angel couples per weekend:
            June 2-4, 2023
            August 4-6, 2023
Click Here to Learn More and to Volunteer
Missed a POST Session?
Need a refresher?
Join us anytime!


All TCR POST sessions are in person.

St. Peter's Church
405 Sibley Memorial Hwy
Mendota Heights, MN

For more information:

Dean & Pat    952-454-1247
TCRPost@TCR-mn.org

Jim & Vicki     507-381-7614
TCRVolunteer@TCR-mn.org

 
International Online POST Sessions
Tuesday Nights 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm (Central Time)

Session 6      Mar 7       Forgiveness/Trust
Session 7      Mar 14     Conflict Management (Part 1)
Session 8      Mar 21     Conflict Management (Part 2)
Session 9      Mar 28     Intimacy
Session 10    Apr 4        Our Sexual Relationship
Session 11    Apr 11       Marriage as Vocation
Session 12    Apr 18      Review/Sharing Gift
 

Please enter the first name for both Husband and Wife in the First Name box when registering. This will present both names in the Meeting window.

After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the webinar.

Click Here to Register for the On-Line Post Sessions

TCR CORE In-Person
Friday, March 3, 2023  6:15 PM


Best Western Plus Dakota Ridge Hotel
3450 Washington Drive, Eagan, MN

Meet in the lower level conference room. 
Meeting starts at 6:15 PM.
Optional to go out to dinner afterwards.

Central MN CORE In-Person
March 19, 2023

Meetings held every 3rd Sunday of the month (except December).

St. Michael’s Church
1036 Co Rd 4
St Cloud 56303

Please contact Kyle or Jennifer for additional information
jennifer_paumen@hotmail.com
 
International CORE Meetings

1st Thursday of Month 7 pm

Retrouvaille International hosts an online CORE the first Thursday of each month, from
7-9 pm Central Time.

March 2, 2023

Questions call be directed to
Dick and Irene
financeteam@helpourmarriage.org
Click Here for Zoom Link
International CORE Meetings

2nd Saturday of Month 5 pm

Retrouvaille International hosts an online CORE the second Saturday of each month, from
5-7 pm Central Time.

March 11, 2023

Questions call be directed to Hoefie and Joleen  cdhaupt@gmail.com
Men's Group
Fargo Men's Groups

In-Person: Friday Mornings 6:30am
at Snap Dragon Asian Buffet in Moorhead

Virtual: Wednesday Mornings 6:30am
(see zoom link below)

The Fargo Retrouvaille Community would like to welcome any and all men to join the Friday morning group meetings. 
It is an awesome opportunity for men to support one another as we strive to become the best husbands, father, brothers, and sons we can be. 

Brad and Lisa Gray
Red River Retrouvaille, Community Coordinators
Diocese of Fargo
5201 Bishops Blvd
Fargo, ND 58104
(701) 356-7903 – office
(701) 306-7685 - mobile
brad.gray@fargodiocese.org
Click Here for Zoom Meeting Weds 6:30am
Defeat Porn. Together.

Covenant Eyes is designed to help you and those you love live free from pornography.

Struggling to quit watching porn?

YOU'RE NOT ALONE


Join over 1.5 million people who've used Covenant Eyes to experience victory over porn.
Click Here for more info
Would you like to become a Mentor Couple?

Two of our most important goals in Retrouvaille are helping hurting couples and developing our TCR community. Here is a chance to do both! 

TCR is starting a Mentor Couple program similar to efforts in other successful communities.  
What is a Mentor Couple?
Mentors are TCR couples who have been through a weekend and the Post sessions. They connect with new Friday night couples to provide a supportive link to TCR and its programs. 

What are the qualifications?
If you have been in Retrouvaille for a year and want to help other couples, you qualify! Being good listeners and working well together as a couple are particularly helpful. 

What will Mentor Couples actually do?
The Friday night couple you are helping will receive your contact information and a short bio. They will be expecting a text from you in the week following their weekend to set up a call. This is a chance for them to stay connected to another couple who has shared their weekend experience. As with all Retrouvaille, this is not therapy, but a listening ear and an open heart.  

How do I find out more?
Contact Eric & Char Anderson at TCRFinance@tcr-mn.org.
 
 
Helpful Resources

Are you looking for books or website to help yourself or your marriage?  Click below for resources for Marriage, Marriage Counseling, Infidelity, Forgiveness, Sex & Intimacy, Pornography & Sex Addiction, Workaholism, Substance Abuse, Depression, and Devotionals.

Click here for books and Website Links
Click here for MN Relationship & Marriage Counselors
Book Drive for FNCs

Do you have books that helped heal your marriage?  Would you be willing to donate them to other couples who need help with their marriage? 

Bring any books you would like to donate to the Best Western Dakota Ridge in Eagan during a Retrouvaille weekend or to any Post Session.
Relevant Radio
Relevant Radio

Bringing Christ to the world through the media

We would like to thank Relevant Radio for their support and sharing Retrouvaille through the media.

Tune in to 1330AM
Click here to support Relevant Radio
Patron Saint of Retrouvaille - St. Joseph

O blessed Joseph, faithful guardian of my Redeemer, Jesus Christ, protector of thy chaste spouse, the virgin Mother of God, I choose thee this day to be my special patron and advocate and I firmly resolve to honor thee all the days of my life. Therefore I humbly beseech thee to receive me as thy client, to instruct me in every doubt, to comfort me in every affliction, to obtain for me and for all the knowledge and love of the Heart of Jesus, and finally to defend and protect me at the hour of my death. Amen

'I know by experience, ' says St. Teresa of Avila, 'that the glorious St. Joseph assists us generally in all necessities. I never asked him for anything which he did not obtain for me. 

Mission & Vision Statements
Mission Statement

Twin Cities Retrouvaille is a Christian peer ministry that, with the help of God, teaches communication skills and offers a support community to couples experiencing pain and disappointment in their marriage relationships. 

Vision Statement

The vision of TCR is to build a healthy, vibrant, and expanding community which provides a nurturing environment that inspires Retrouvaille couples to grow in support for each other, other couples, and to reach out to other communities.


TCR Board Meetings are held the 3rd Tuesday of every month, 7pm-9pm.
Meetings are open for all community members to attend.
If you would like to attend, please contact any of the board members listed below.


TCR Board Members:

Community Coordinators:  Mike & Ann Cerney   TCRCoordinator@tcr-mn.org
Finance Coordinators:  Eric & Char Anderson   TCRFinance@tcr-mn.org
Secretary:  Stan & Mary Nordin   TCRSecretary@tcr-mn.org    
Registration Coordinators:  Dean & Pat Ziegenbein   TCRRegistration@tcr-mn.org   
Weekend Coordinators:   Tim & Teresa Sazma TCRWeekend@TCR-mn.org
POST Coordinators: Jim & Vicki Smith  TCRPost@tcr-mn.org
Volunteer Coordinators   OPEN  TCRVolunteer@tcr-mn.org
CORE Coordinators:  OPEN   TCRCore@tcr-mn.org